Why do feminists say gender shouldnt matter and then turn around and whine...

[MaryWinkler]

...and moan if there is a gender? got bored with the old one, but from the pic people can still tell its me, but yah I think iam going to change it back seen as people got used to it.
disparity in favour of men.
dont you worry obvious I noticed them whining but I do not hang around them all the time or on a regular basis.

 

[LteObvious]

Condolences
Evidently You Keep Company
With People Who Incessantly
Turn
Whine
And Moan

It Sounds Noisy And Exhausting

I Do Not Suffer From This Problem

To Address Your Question:

If Someone Objects To A Situation
Then Clearly They Will Object To The Situation

I Do Not See A Contradiction

 

[Kiki]

I'm guessing they're whining gender shouldn't matter "at all", and thus that would include either in favor or disfavor of one particular gender.

 

[GazzB]

How come you changed your name Cassius?