Why do girls always expect guys to ask them out and then whine for not being noticed?

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no, you see that cute guy in class, but always waiting for him to ask you but he doesnt and ends up with another girl then you whine why this happened LOL
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yeah its tradition all right, we're in the 19th century ?
well from the answers i can surely say that some of you will surely be waiting a long time, unless your SUPER GORGEOUS or something haha
 
Not all girls are like that. I'm certainly not. m 14 and I haven't had a boyfriend. The people that have asked me out, aren't my type.
Really only snobby girls whine about stuff like that. How "they are too pretty that they can't believe no one notices them"
However, their personality crashes their looks

It's just as difficult to ask a guy out as it is a girl out, so It's not our fault
 
wow that's not at ALL stereotypical

"why do guys assume girls are whiny and not as good as them?"

oh, my bad! was i being stereotypical? nah, i don't think so.
 
Because we just do but in saying that i ask guys out sometimes its not that bad dont be a pussy man up and ask the girl out that your thinking of :) X
 
do guys like it when girls make the first move? i heard its a turn off for some guys when the girl initiates stuff...guys like the chase right? i don't know but i think a lot of girls are scared that if they make the first move then the guy won't like it cuz the girl's making it too easy.
 
UM asking a girl out is a boys job
and if the girl is whinig she should stop because the boy dont like her.

but if the whole story is different and the boy is shy she should ask the boy out
 
because they think that guys know that THEY want US to do all the work. which we don't. or even if you do, you might not have the balls to tell the girl you like that you like her because you don't know if she likes you back and if you ask a girl out or tell her that you like her and she doesn't like you back then you can pretty much never talk to her again without that awkwardness
 
i dont do that

ur just lookin at all tha wrong girls for examples

although i like a boy with confidence ;)
 
Women have pain the first time they have sex, then, when they're pregnant, they have to suffer 9 months & then have even more pain when the baby is born & most of them also have to give up their career, even if they've studied for years. So men could at least do something & ask the girls out. That's all we ask for. lol
 
Girls exist under the tradition and illusion that it is a guy's responsibility to do the asking. And girl's just find things to complain about a lot, and since dating and romance are key in any girl's life, that's pretty much all that's on their mind to complain about. It's just something that touches them deeply and really upsets their balance of self-esteem. If a girl is asked out often, she'll feel wanted. And if not, well it has a reverse effect.
 
It's sexist, I know. The truth is that they can dish out rejection but they can't take it. If they had to put up with the crap we take from them they'd cry themselves to sleep every night. That's why they'll sometimes dump a guy for no apparent reason. They'd rather dump a guy when things are going well than take a chance on ever being rejected. Pathetic, isn't it? If they had any backbone at all they'd ask guys out, but they'd rather complain.

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If I sound angry it's because I've seen way too many online personal profiles posted by women who go on at great length about how no man on Earth is good enough for them and then wonder why they can't get a date. In the words of Buffy the vampire slayer, "Does the word 'duh' mean anything to you?" If you act like a stuck-up b**** all the time nobody is going to want to talk to you, let alone ask you out.
 
Me personally, I don't whine because it's too babyish you know?
Girls whine because some of them are sttupid little sluts and want attention. All girls want attention including me. However, whining is for babys, so they wants guys to spoil them. It annoys me to death
 
its the way we were brought up and I do not totally agree. I think if a girl asks a fella for a dance or out for a nite etc... then he would give it ago but if a fell asks a girl out and she does not fancy him she says NO.
 
Because usually the guy asks out the girl..
but i hate when people think that though.. like, the girl can ask out the guy too.. like the girl can also ask the guy if he wants to go to the movies can she not?!?!?!?!?!

what bugs me is when like, my friend will have a problem, she'll be like.. why hasn't he called yet?! then i'll say something like.. why don't you call him? and she said, because that's not how it's suppose to be, the guy's suppose to call the girl. -__-

don't pay any mind to girls like that.. they're very stereotypical.

answer mines:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AunwriTmZGVApSTDWs1W_f3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090828140613AAYPcIC
 
why dont guys notice girls?
and why do they complain about asking?
we have our fetishes you have yours if u have a problem u might want to reconsider your sexuality
 
Because, they should.
That's our job.
Help please?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiDIDyAhmQPBqUf0T_UmuAHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090828143557AA1CDnI
 
because it is the guys job to ask you out it is our job to lead you on and yall do the asking
 
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