Why do girls whine about guys doing the EXACT same thing girls do to guys?

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peacenlove1

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Break there hearts and lie to them. I always see and hear girls whine and complain about that, but they do the same shit to us guys. For instance just about a week ago, I got break broken over a HARSH rejection, I was always nice to that girl and she seemed to like me back. I have never broken a girls heart, only rejected one once (for a good reason she "liked" about 5 other guys and we had only talked once and it was 6 months before she asked me out). Do they do this because they are clueless or is it because they want to trick guys into thinking "I will be the nice guy and be the best boyfriend this girl has ever had" so they can reject them and break there hearts for fun when they go out with the douchbag?
 
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Kat

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Everyone gets their heart broken, however amazing you are as a person and physically.

But, the amazing thing is, we all get used to it and it makes us tougher :)

So really you should learn to relish life for all its ups and downs!

Best of luck (you WILL get over the heartbreak, you're stronger than you think)
xxx
 
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ttFabuloustt

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Some girls feel the need to have a "backup guy" because if their main guy dumps them or cheats they'll hve the oppurtunity to do the same thing. And they wont haveto worry about being single. Its like an insecurity thing. But i think that if you really love and care abou someone then theres no need for infidelity...
 
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ANONYMOUS

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I totally understand man, girls are so fucking awkward and difficult. I personally think girls are so aware of what their boyfriends and their mates are doing that they are completely clueless as you said, what they are doing. I wish girls were simple, everything is a mind game and manipulation. Sorry if i sound sexist because im not, i love girls, but i do completely agree with what you are saying though.
 
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sillySyd

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some girls have double standards and don't even realize it. i suggest to tell the next girl you hear whine or complain, tell her off. but make sure she deserves it first.
 
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DJ

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Victoria

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most of the time girls get very upset after there heart is broken and get very agrivated because they might have thought that u liked them back and they like you a lot mostly girls get mad because of that but really there is nothin you can do i have gotten my heart broken before and ive broken other peoples heart just dont sweat it relax and just try and tell her you just wanna be friends
 
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someone

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umm we arent clueless its jus sometimes our heart goes into different directions. or we find out we really dont like you anymore after knowing how you really act in front of us or treat us or if we find a better guy. hope this helps
 
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angel

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No matter how long to people date its hard to break up. My brother just broke up with the perfect person in the world for him. Well that's what everybody thought but not him.


Anthony I dont agree with you
 
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Koreena1

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If I break anyone's heart, it's not to be mean... And if I "whine" about guys doing the same, it isn't intentional. I'm just curious and ask questions, but I guess to some people, it comes off as whining. Not sure :/ I think most girls just don't realize they're the same... : )

Sorryyyy about your rejection : ( : (
 
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ellimac

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Your name seems kind of ironic with this question;) I'm a woman and I don't try to break hearts for sport. I know some women do, but I don't think we should all be lumped in that category. A lot of guys do it as well, obviously, but some don't. Maybe certain girls get the same sick pleasure out of dumping a sweet guy that some guys get out of sleeping with a gullible girl and then ditching her. I don't know. It sounds like you're in high school and that's just a hard/confusing time for relationships in general. Usually it's a lack of communication and the fact that it's considered okay to be immature and harsh with relationships and breakups. Anyway, maybe if you're dating a lot of heartbreakers you should see what they have in common and try to date a different type of girl.
 
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wisemancumth

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You're right because woman are hypocrits. I just went out with a girl, we talked and walk around ate at a nice restaurant, we had no akward moments. The date last for 4 hours. She gave absolutely no sign of not being interested. She even gave me a hug. 2 days later she tells me she didn't feel chemistry. I asked her what she didnt like about me but she said "absolutely nothing". Later she tells me she went out with a guy but she's upset that he didn't call her back. She even was wondering why he lied to her about having been married before but still wanted to go out with him again.
So you see, according to her, I was perfect but she didnt want to date me, wile he lied to her but she still wants to see him again.
 
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Ian

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There are different kinds of girls just like there are different kinds of guys. There are sex addict women (god bless those gifts of sweet, ripe vagina) just like sex addict men (fucking shitbags of competition) basically, it's all about sorting through all the books that are interesting by having to read them half way and rhen throwing them away until you find the one you want to read over and over again.

In my case, on the other hand, Ima be reading a lot of short stories.
 
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