Why do men casually joke about this ?

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When I talk to older bachelors - guys in their 30's . They casually joke about making babies WITH ME. And I find it insulting becuz I don't even find them physically attractive.

Why do guys think it's funny and cool to suggest to a random female who they are not even dating about making babies ? Aren't you supposed to say that kind of stuff to your girlfriend or fiancee ?

Do you think that's rude ?
 
Tell them they're using the phrase "making babies" as a euphemism for "having sex" (or a blunter expletive) and you find the whole idea coarse, childish and a huge turn-off. That should end these suggestions.
 
Explain to them that it offends you and makes you uncomfortable and it will end right there and then.

Problem solved :)
 
relax, don't take it personally. It's just a joke, they don't mean what they say
 
When did 30's become older???

Oh, and you should maybe think about learning how to spell.

Why anyone would want to make a baby with someone that is illiterate is beyond me, but maybe they were drinking.
 
yes it is rude but how you handel it says a lot about who you are and what you are looking for in a guy. boys are always going to be dorks. they have given little thought to your feelings but the average guy will back off real quick if they know that they have hurt or insulted you. this goes a long way to say how you want to be treated. so older guys are best left alone and only general casual conversation. let them know that you think what they said is rude and insulting they will get the point you can not be subtle they do not get it
 
If they are bachelors in their 30's there's a chance they haven't grown up yet. Maybe what they mean to say is "let's go f***" but because of previous experiences that got them no where with mature women they may have (through constant b**ch slapping) changed their verbiage to say "make babies" but essentially they are saying the same immature thing.

When I think of who would be saying this, I think of a man who has a history of playing high school sports (football, soccer, baseball, ect) or a man who went to school for sales/business... Maybe it's just me but I see these people as having HUGE egos and all he's doing is stroking his own ego at your accord.

My advice? Stay clear and take offense. Some people might say that you're being over sensitive but I think in this case, these guys just don't understand how to flirt and no one's going to teach them because one day that "pick up line" is going to work...
 
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