Does this try anyone else's patience? I mean, I'm really sick about hearing about it from more introverted friends of mine who bitch and moan and just dont get it. I grow weary of the line, "She would rather date a guy who treats her like crap than date a guy who would be sweet to her."
Am I wrong to tell them to ask themselves why they aren't interested in dating the unattractive, quiet girls, and then maybe they'll find their answer? Why can't they just accept that they just aren't what certain people want? Why do they need to define themselves by whether or not somebody desires them? I blame Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
And it's not like these girls don't want a guy to be nice to them. I'm sure some to most of them do. They just don't want YOU to be that guy.
Am I wrong to tell them to ask themselves why they aren't interested in dating the unattractive, quiet girls, and then maybe they'll find their answer? Why can't they just accept that they just aren't what certain people want? Why do they need to define themselves by whether or not somebody desires them? I blame Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
And it's not like these girls don't want a guy to be nice to them. I'm sure some to most of them do. They just don't want YOU to be that guy.