find a wife ? These vietnamese girls in my town in the united states thinks I'm gay and they don't want to marry me because they think I'm gay. I've tried telling them that I'm straight but they won't believe me. I have to travel to vietnam now to find a vietnamese girl to be my wife, my mom asked my aunt to introduced me to some vietnamese girls who want to marry a vietnamese american guy. Why do these vietnamese american girl think I'm gay ?? They told me they think I'm gay because I'm skinny and I never had a girlfriend before and because i don't like playing sports. I like playing on the computer or hanging out with my cousins.