Why do these girls keeps on assuming that I'm gay that I have to travel to...

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Jacob

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...vietnam to find a wife ? These vietnamese girls in my town think I'm gay and they don't want nothing to do with me or even be my friend. I have to travel to vietnam to find myself a good vietnamese girl to be my wife, my aunt's going to introduced me to some vietnamese girls in vietnam. I don't understand why these girls think I'm gay. The reason they think I'm gay is because I'm skinny and I don't play any sports because I don't like getting dirty. I prefer to sit on the computer if i have free time or hangout with my family.
 
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Mom

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Well, I assume you are having plenty of Vietnamese girls in the neighbourhood, but why you have to marry a Vietnamese, you can marry anyone... you can find them from your neighbourhood too. Unless you are a Vietnamese and you want to marry someone from your nationality.

For the issue about their thoughts about your sexuality, is minor and I would not prefer giving much focus to that I face that some day, no one can look/act/be like gay, it is not a culture or tradition but just biological phenomenon.

People need vital education about sexuality... explains.
 
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BillielIngrid

New member
Don't worry about what they say. They have a stereo-typical view of men, they think men should be all hard and sporty and if they're not then they're gay which is not true at all! Just ignore them.
 
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Vanessa

Member
explain to them that you're a straight nerd and you have a lot of money and they'll be frolicking over you. lol "going to vietnam to get a wife"..
 
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Oreogirl

New member
well you kinda just answered your own question (why do these girls keep on assuming that i'm gay). you said "the reason they think i'm gay is because i'm skinny and i don't play any sports because i don't like getting dirty." just tell them that. i'm sure they will understand if you just explain.

btw why are you trying to move to a place just to find a wife? it kinda sounds like you are on a mission to find your wife, but that makes no sense.....
 
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