Why does everyone contradict themselves on the topic of losing your

Valerie

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virginity and whether you lost it or not? When I say that I'm not totally a virgin, the person looks at me funny and the response I get each time is "You either are or aren't", there is NO in between.

Then if you ask someone, "What makes a person a virgin?" Everyone gives the same answer as if it's soooo obvious "someone who has had sex".

Then when I tell people, I have had Oral sex, been fingered... basically every move there is EXCEPT penetration. Then people tell me I'm NOT a virgin.

What the hell is a virgin?????
 
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