Why does my girlfriend scream, storm away, says she hates me and break up...

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Honestly she probly does have issues with anxiety. Has she had to deal with any hard changes recently? Women are very hard to understand sometimes. If you care about her try to talk to her about it if you can. If you can't or she just won't let you, you really should reevaluate your relationship. Best of luck to you!!
 
There is nothing wrong with her, mentally. She's got anger issues and is taking them out on you. She's taking you for granted. You need to be the one breaking up with HER and sticking to it.

If you unhappy you need to get out. Period. There's no helping a girl like that.
 
Yeah it's defidently signs of all those things because i use to do the same damn thing to my boyfriend. And it's not like I mieant any of those hurtful things because I love him with all my heart. I felt like i was hurting and he should have been to, doesn't really seem like i would want that for someone you love but to me it didn't seem like he understood me. Then I got on anti-depressents and I defidently feel sooooo much better and I feel like the way I use to in the beginning of our relationship. You should talk her feelings out, help her.
 
Immature temper tantrums, and/or drama queen. She likes demanding (and receiving) the attention from it. You said it yourself, you spend the entire day in damage control - and that's exactly what she's manipulating out of you.

She's broken. She'll drain all of your energy from life. Find somebody else.
 
...with me (what seems like) everyday? She gets full of rage over the littlest things, screams at me, storms away, breaks up with me, texts me that is over when i leave her fits, says don't touch me, i hate you among other hurtful things. then i spend the whole night trying to do damage control.

On Friday she said she can't be with me, (even though I am the unhappy one) then we break up , she called me 5 minutes after but i just blew her off, texts me 10 minutes after, then calls me an hour later.

Could these be signs of depression, anxiety, stress? She's all messed up as you might be able to tell from my previous posts.
 
There is nothing wrong with her, mentally. She's got anger issues and is taking them out on you. She's taking you for granted. You need to be the one breaking up with HER and sticking to it.

If you unhappy you need to get out. Period. There's no helping a girl like that.
 
OK. Why would you want to be treated like that. If I really liked my boyfriend, I would never treat him like that (if I ever had one). Yeah, I take guys who I know like me for granted, but I'm a girl who likes those things from guys. Doing favors, etc. But I would never threaten my relationship to my boyfriend.
 
It sounds like she is immature and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way. My question for you is why do you stay with her?
 
It sounds like she is immature and throws temper tantrums when she doesn't get her way. My question for you is why do you stay with her?
 
The first thing that comes to mind when reading this is bi polar disorder. My sister has it and has had a ton of relationships. She is always labeled "crazy" by her ex's. Now that she is on treatment she is doing much better!

Anger management could be another thing, but I don't think that's whats causing it.

Immaturity/temper tantrums,

You can have her take this test to see if bi polar is a possibility, or you can fill it out based on what you know about her and see what you get. Then you can go from there.

http://counsellingresource.com/quizzes/goldberg-bipolar/index.html

Realize though that telling her she needs to get help will probably set her off again. But If she really does care about you she will come around.
 
hi, my girlfirend is just like that. She constantly thinks Im getting at her, and trying to cause rows, but I litterally ask her questions in a calm manner. I constantly find myself wondering if its all me like she says it is. But its definitely not. Shes grumpy, snappy, shes got a bad bad temper, shes violent and shes just generally not happy. Shes been getting help, but Im finding it so difficult and its bringing me down. Shes always telling me she hates me, and that she doesnt want me. I am feeling so down in this relationship, but I cant help but stick around because I love her so much. We got a new house a few days ago, and today we had a really awful fall out. She said she hates me, and that she wants to break up. Shes kinda needy and pathetic. But I ould never want her to leave me. Just be patient. She will be ok....eventually. Dont let her drag you down too though. It could get nasty
 
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