Why is it that every guy I meet lives in a bad neighborhood?

I just do not get it. I met this guy who is gay and we connected so well. He is a nurse and he is out in Georgia right now getting his exam taken care of so he can get his certificate to be a nurse. He said he was moving to Pennsylvania soon within the next few months and he wants to see me because he thinks we have such a great connection and he wants to see what can happen. So PA is about 4 hours away from where I live. But upon finding out the town he lives in I was texting with a friend of mine from around there and he lives an hour away from this guys town that he is moving to.

I find out that the town is filled with hookers and gangs and strippers and all the worst violence anyone could ever have. My thing is what am I doing wrong here? When I was with my ex boyfriend he also lived in a bad neighborhood. I mean you cannot walk out on the streets in these places without fear of being shot at or something happening. So please explain what I am doing wrong here? I met this nice guy who is moving to PA but he is moving to a bad town. Seems every gay guy I find lives in a bad area and I have no clue until after I fall in love with him. I wonder why that happens.
 
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