If things happen for a reason....then what is or are the reason of which my gf and I broke up two weeks ago. Or why I'm sad lonely and miserable. I really thought she was the one...I'm so confused. I don't see any positive outcome to this situation or phase of my life....can someone please help me out. Pray for me.
Why is my life made into such a joke...i need some help?
positive outcome?
you're free. dedicating yourself to another person means what it sounds like. you are free to be yourself, by yourself, and nobody can dictate your actions. or, if you have other friends/associates, you can spend more time with them now. if not, that's fine too, i spend a lot of time alone, too.
you can save money and not spend it on one person, which i'm sure you need, like we all do, in this economy.
don't be sad, lonely, or miserable. i'm sorry to hear that you broke up, but realize that there's light at the end of this tunnel, too. you don't need a relationship to be happy. you're free again! and single doesn't equal lonely, always remember that. there are always people out there who can be great friends to you, regardless of race, gender, nationality, anything. you are never alone.
you can focus on more important things now. make your life better. make others' lives better. make the world better. experience the world without the restraints of relationships! there's a great world out there. go see it.
and if you cannot possibly survive without a relationship, maybe you will find one on your journeys. remember, you are not only free from commitment, you are also free from the person who wasn't right for you. don't mourn this wrong decision; it's a growing experience, and freedom from a (very likely) negative life in the wrong relationship.
feel better, friend.
you're free. dedicating yourself to another person means what it sounds like. you are free to be yourself, by yourself, and nobody can dictate your actions. or, if you have other friends/associates, you can spend more time with them now. if not, that's fine too, i spend a lot of time alone, too.
you can save money and not spend it on one person, which i'm sure you need, like we all do, in this economy.
don't be sad, lonely, or miserable. i'm sorry to hear that you broke up, but realize that there's light at the end of this tunnel, too. you don't need a relationship to be happy. you're free again! and single doesn't equal lonely, always remember that. there are always people out there who can be great friends to you, regardless of race, gender, nationality, anything. you are never alone.
you can focus on more important things now. make your life better. make others' lives better. make the world better. experience the world without the restraints of relationships! there's a great world out there. go see it.
and if you cannot possibly survive without a relationship, maybe you will find one on your journeys. remember, you are not only free from commitment, you are also free from the person who wasn't right for you. don't mourn this wrong decision; it's a growing experience, and freedom from a (very likely) negative life in the wrong relationship.
feel better, friend.
I'll pray for you
It seems you're in a bit of a mess, but there always is a reason you just can't see it now. She just wasn't right for you. Things will get better because you'll meet your true love and be glad you did. Don't feel sad lonely and miserable, but look at the bright side of things. There always is a bright side trust me there always is. You'll soon be out of this mess and realize it was only a phase. Good luck and just remember what I said!
It seems you're in a bit of a mess, but there always is a reason you just can't see it now. She just wasn't right for you. Things will get better because you'll meet your true love and be glad you did. Don't feel sad lonely and miserable, but look at the bright side of things. There always is a bright side trust me there always is. You'll soon be out of this mess and realize it was only a phase. Good luck and just remember what I said!