i m good looking women of 24 yrs and we have a baby of nearly 4 months.it was unplanned pregnancy.we are living happily but after having the baby we only had sex 2 times.before the baby was born we had sex like 2-4 times a week.
he was with me when i m delivering the baby normally.he was so upset that i was hurting so much.and after 1 month of the delivery as my epistomy wound was not healing i asked him to take a look down there to see what s happening.and he was even more upset.earlier days after the marriage first 2 months he gave me a good foreplay and sex was so enjoying.but later he didnd want to foreplay.he seemed not like it that much.one day when i asked him why,he told me that one day while i m pregnant and when he was down there he felt some whity thing comming out and he doesnt like the strong taste of it.it s something normal in the pregnancy according to the doctors.
but now i m back to the normal being and my figure is back to its normal size as well no more whity thing is comming.whenever i ask about sex he is giving me many answers.he says that he s affraid that i would be pregnant again.we had morning after pill on the day we had sex after delivery.i had a bad time that day due to headache and i scold him saying i m the one who is suffering after all and that i didnt even enjoy sex yesterday.from that day he seems no interset in sex.i dont know why.i scold him like that coz i wanted to show him that i need foreplay.but now i m having nothing at all.he needs to wait till i get my iud first to prevent pregnancy but he seems like forgeting every time we get the appoinment to go to place iud.i even asked that is my vagina doesnt fit in.he said everything is normal like earlier and not to worry.he said he doesnt feel like doing it.
he loves our daughter very much.he s good person who loves me but i m feeling miserable without sex.what can i do???
he was with me when i m delivering the baby normally.he was so upset that i was hurting so much.and after 1 month of the delivery as my epistomy wound was not healing i asked him to take a look down there to see what s happening.and he was even more upset.earlier days after the marriage first 2 months he gave me a good foreplay and sex was so enjoying.but later he didnd want to foreplay.he seemed not like it that much.one day when i asked him why,he told me that one day while i m pregnant and when he was down there he felt some whity thing comming out and he doesnt like the strong taste of it.it s something normal in the pregnancy according to the doctors.
but now i m back to the normal being and my figure is back to its normal size as well no more whity thing is comming.whenever i ask about sex he is giving me many answers.he says that he s affraid that i would be pregnant again.we had morning after pill on the day we had sex after delivery.i had a bad time that day due to headache and i scold him saying i m the one who is suffering after all and that i didnt even enjoy sex yesterday.from that day he seems no interset in sex.i dont know why.i scold him like that coz i wanted to show him that i need foreplay.but now i m having nothing at all.he needs to wait till i get my iud first to prevent pregnancy but he seems like forgeting every time we get the appoinment to go to place iud.i even asked that is my vagina doesnt fit in.he said everything is normal like earlier and not to worry.he said he doesnt feel like doing it.
he loves our daughter very much.he s good person who loves me but i m feeling miserable without sex.what can i do???