Why people believe in having sex before marriage to try partners out first?

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I hear it all the time. People believing in trying out a person sexually before actually committing maritally. Honestly that's a very immature reason to have sex before marriage. It sounds more like an excuse to indulge in one's own lust. It's as if they are applying marriage is all about sex. But it isn't! It goes so much deeper than that! I think this is why so many people are used and abused and left with an empty hole in their heart . . .

This might sound bizarre and far fetched to you, but this is how I see it. Anyone else out there wondering the same thing?
 
sex is a very big part of a marriage

you have to practice at first
 
I think that it's an important part of any relationship to have a sexual "spark," meaning that both partners can keep each other satisfied. Lots of relationships fizzle out because they lack that physical aspect, which is just as important as the emotional part. As you would get to know someone's personality to decide where your relationship will go, many people make the descision to learn how their partner handles intimacy. Going around having sex with some random stranger is a bad idea, but if you plan on a serious relationship, pre marital sex is to be expected, and I personally encourage it.
 
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