it? I'm 48 and to be honest am lucky to be taken for 32 or 33 as I have youthful looks, eat well and take care of my health. I'm single, have lots of friends a good job and travel lots. The thing is I've only had two serious relationships, one for a year and a half and another for 4 years. The first guy ended it with me as I wasn't that in love with him. The second ended it as I was a workaholic. That really hurt as we were compatible otherwise. That happened 7 years ago and since, I have gone on dates as many guys ask me out. I've only met one that I liked and that was a guy of 24 who has a serious drinking problem. I really liked him, we had a relationship for a couple of months except his heart was with another girl. That's just over, another guy has asked me out, he's really into me, has a good job is nice looking but I feel nothing so havn't even kissed him. I just don't understand how it is so difficult to meet a person for love. What is wrong? If I think about it I will get down. I am a good person and it seems so wrong to have a loveless life.