I'm sorry for going off topic here but I need to seek clarification...are you saying guys are complaining that being on a MEU is worse than being in 3/5, 1/5, 2nd/3rd Recon, MSOT 8111 and 8112, and the batteries in Kajaki? 3/5 literally lost over a platoon of guys and had an entire company combat ineffective. I think that outweighs the annoyance of a MEU workup and fighting for space at the gym on ship.
Yes, there were a few women in Sangin...some FET, and some with Workhorse and the wrecker unit (don't remember their c/s). FET (no longer called that) are a great asset when properly trained and utilized.
And while I wanted to keep some of the 'in-house' intricacies of Marine infantry life......um, in-house....I will say similar considerations apply directly to living in a PB or Recon Coil. Here I'm talking no generators, no LOG Trains, limited airdrop supplies, running out of WAG bags, almost no shade shelter, close proximity living with no walls or privacy of any kind (you know what that leads to), etc...