Hi there, 
I am starting to date a guy who (so far) seems great. He is what I'm looking for...considerate, funny, a gentleman. I really (really) like him.
Last week, he finally asked me to sleep with him.
Since I'm a virgin and I am not really comfortable yet with him, I said no. I told him I needed much more time. And he did respect that.
Now I'm thinking, if we continue to date, that I might eventually trust him enough to make him The One.
But I'm scared to death of the pain. I still have my hymen. How bad will it hurt. I can't even wear a tampon it hurts so bad!
And, secondly, how do I tell him? I feel like I have an affliction! I can't imagine telling a guy I'm a virgin.
Thanks so much for any help!
I am starting to date a guy who (so far) seems great. He is what I'm looking for...considerate, funny, a gentleman. I really (really) like him.
Last week, he finally asked me to sleep with him.
Since I'm a virgin and I am not really comfortable yet with him, I said no. I told him I needed much more time. And he did respect that.
Now I'm thinking, if we continue to date, that I might eventually trust him enough to make him The One.
But I'm scared to death of the pain. I still have my hymen. How bad will it hurt. I can't even wear a tampon it hurts so bad!
And, secondly, how do I tell him? I feel like I have an affliction! I can't imagine telling a guy I'm a virgin.
Thanks so much for any help!