Well the conclusions above are pretty crass!
I have another opinion,,,,,how does he hurt you? what are the complaints?.
I too am off work its been 8 months now, suffered a brain hemorrhage last year.
hospital visits infrequent
At home here you only have the right to leave the house for two hrs in the day.I moved here to be with the woman I love. For six months life stopped, the wife's didn't...you can't come.....see you later then.
If your going to be tired we will go separately, I left early she stayes to the death,to help tidy up after the party.....next day I'm told all is done in regards to cleaning after party...hours later she's off again to help her mum, hours later she returns, I'm the one turning the wasteland into a garden......
Priority elsewhere!
8 months of recovery....she took 0 days off to be with her husband.......plenty to suit her desires.
If it is attempted to discuss my feelings of frustration, its just...
Oh thats different
Its your head thing
She now has the perfect excuse not to bother listening.
I ask for things to do, we live in an old place. Half hearted joint looks for flooring etc, some things have been done but much more could have been done in this time.I would't have been so bored.
On Friday I managed to cut the tendons in my right hand,she was working from home. I drive myself to the hospital as not to disturb her from working.I come home early evening after having been operated on.....still working. this is the day after being told she's had a very easy week....I question why she hasn't been home then before 7pm.
Oh dear walked right into that one......Blame it on his head!.
Some background, I moved to France and gave up everything family ,friends etc. No effort has ever been made to form mutual friends. Her book is full , personal friends ( kept to herself),family are all around. For me its like living with a housemate.
Could anyone imagine its a pleasure to be isolated all day, Its why I ended up on here,for human iteraction. My wife presumes I'm flirting!,looking for someone else!.
So maybe he is bored, frustrated and tired by his condition,try to talk and listen to what he feels and thinks,and find a resolve!.
I love my wife,,but she gets crtisised, then again its the frustration of not being listened to, her easy excuse to shift the highlight elsewhere. Even on occations a third party has been witness and able to agree with me it still bears no effect.