chichibaby
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...one you bought her? Sooooo...the wedding band that I had originally was resized but now it's way too tight since I'm pregnant and my fingers tend to swell. It wasn't anything flashy just a simple white gold band (I happened to like). Anyways, I stopped wearing it and when my husband asked me why I told him bc it didn't fit anymore. We got married without rings but got them a week after we were married, the bands we got were only temporary and we both knew that. We looked at other rings together and found one that I really liked. He said he'd get it for me, well I guess with me not wearing a ring he felt rushed to get me one right away and he suprised me with one on Monday. It was really nice of him and I really appreciated the gesture, the only thing is it's huge on me, like HUGE and not only in size but the width and it rubs against my fingers whenever I close them. I honestly do not like the ring, it doesn't look like a wedding ring at all it's more like a cocktail ring. It has a lot of sparkle and it's pretty but not something you'd really wear as a wedding band. It's just too much for me and not my style. I know I sound like a horrible person and a materialistic ****** but I'm really not. He asked me if I liked the ring and I couldn't bring myself to tell him the truth and tell him that I hated it! I told him I liked it and he asked me why so I told him because he chose it for me (that's the only nice thing I had to say about it). He didn't seem happy with my answer and said if I didn't like it I didn't have to wear it. I still wear it though, last night he told me he'd get me another one and this one is temporary. My question is, the ring we both looked at together is a bit pricey, I know he can't afford it right now because he makes less than me but I can. Would it be wrong if I bought it myself? I really don't care if he buys it or not I just really like the ring. Or should I stop bitching and rock this thing? Would your feelings be hurt if your wife went out and bought the ring she wanted instead of the ring you gave her? Normally I wouldn't be this upset about a ring but we went together and looked at rings so he at least knew what style I liked and I feel a little hurt from the style he got me bc it's nothing like the ring we both looked at which means he didn't really take my opinion into consideration and just got what HE liked. This is a ring I will have to wear for the rest of my life..I feel horrible about this and I should I wish I liked the ring but I can't stand it and the fact that I have to stare at it everyday makes me sad about it.