Baby#1DueJuly24tht
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- Feb 13, 2009
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...at everything? My husband woke up in the worst mood this morning. We've had a consistent problem with him hating my cats, but they had gotten some candy from the candy bowl on the table and spread it around the floor. That led to my husband dumping the entire candy bowl contents in the trash...saying we couldn't have anything because the stupid f-ing cats couldn't be responsible with it. He was yelling at the dog (his dog) because she was in the kitchen begging for food as usual. I was sitting on the couch waiting for him to be ready for work and got quiet and upset...mainly because I'm at my wits' end with what to do with the cats. I tried to make a suggestion to him to put saran wrap on the table (cats don't like it) and he said he wasn't going to go out of his way to do things just because they couldn't be responsible. He was yelling at a million other things, too, so he was mainly in a bad mood. He thought it would have made him 100% better for me to go hug him and tell him to calm down. He said he would've done it for me. It's hard for me to do that as I don't know how to deal with him being tense like that. Would you do that? He thinks that I'm a mean and judgmental wife because I don't do that.
He gets in this mood about once or twice a week, so it's not a rare thing. However, he thinks that I act like a bad wife by getting quiet and looking a little afraid and angry.
He gets in this mood about once or twice a week, so it's not a rare thing. However, he thinks that I act like a bad wife by getting quiet and looking a little afraid and angry.