Black people (and from here on, I am thinking "some", but will not keeping typing "some") think they are the sole proprietors to having the racial card.
Jews, for example, do not cling onto it because they moved on as a culture. They will never forget, but they will not look upon it as a victim of it for centuries. Black people desire to remain a "victim", because it suits them to uphold excuses and racism.
TOTALLY AGREE Per my above response
The fact that someone cannot let it go, makes it more of a cry instead of a meaningful outlook. In other words, what happens when a baby cries too much? Or cries to be held most of the time? It gets accustomed to getting a response, even for things it may not actually need at that moment.
When black people (I do not like the term African American, or any other ethnic distinction before "American") speak directly to their experience of slavery, (and it is not from a actual experience) the dominant culture tends to take a pseudo-victim stance, insisting on living it the past to put blame or fault on something or someone else. It is much more "convenient" to blame something or someone else for underachievement. Black people in America insist on speaking the unspeakable. In America, they have it far better than in other countries, especially their native land - Which by the way, they seem to mistakenly cherish and reference it in some sacred manner.
http://kuuleme69.wordpress.com/2011/10/11/slave-mentality-vs-entitlement-mentality-the-downfall-of-the-black-american-community/
http://voices.yahoo.com/blacks-slave-mentality-why-we-still-allowing-ourselves-8365837.html?cat=41
http://gmwilliams.hubpages.com/hub/The-Victim-Mentality-of-Black-Americans
http://www.csmonitor.com/2007/1108/p09s01-coop.html
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_blaming