A special needs boy calls my cellphone several times a day, everday.?

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One day at school, my senior year, i was eating lunch in the cafeteria when i noticed that a special needs boy was being picked on by a group of kids i knew. So i took his hand and told him he could sit at my table to eat lunch with me. Every day after that he followed me to the table, and even when my other friend was annoyed that he was taking her seat, i told him he was welcome. but at the end of the year he asked for my number. And i gave it to him. Every day he calls me, and for a while i would answer and have a conversation. But he called me during work and when i was in movies so i asked him to keep it to one call a day. And he did for a while, but soon went back to calling me a thousand times a day. I am aware that i am one of his only contacts from highschool but it's been a year now and i have had no choice but to stop answering. I feel AWFUL. but i don't know what to do. i feel bad for him, but i will admit that i dont really want to take these calls. and he always asks to hang out. i'm not sure what to do. i can't see that happening. but i'm thinking about giving it a shot.
 
you should tell him that you are not going to be able to answer all of his phone calls becuase you have things to do, such as work, and family.

Okay so you let him call you at least 1 or 2 times.Tell him that he should limit his calls 1 or 2 times a day, and that if he calls more than twice, the phone wont be answered cuz u have important buisness/important phone calls.

also tell him to respect your schedule that not all his calls will be answered. :]
 
Well, you certainly are in an annoying rut. But you can't blame him for being like that, he has no good perception of social order. Just tell him not to call everyday, and when he starts doing it again, tell him again and keep doing so until you're out of school and have a new number.
 
You need to not answer when he calls a lot that way and if you have to, tell him once again that you have other interest and when he calls more than once a day he's disturbing you. You should use that exact word, 'disturbing'. You can't be to evasive about it or he wont get the point. Tell him or deal with it the way it is, and I know you don't want that. It's the real world and you can't baby him through this. That wouldn't be fair to him. He's not a baby he's a guy with a crush. Let him down easy, but by all means, let him down or suffer the consequences. Trust. ';-)
 
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