I'm feeling so confused at the moment, because there's two boys on my mind at the moment:
1) I've had a thing for this boy for ages now (probably 4 months), and I don't know if he's noticed yet. I don't know if he's gay, but his sexuality is fairly ambiguous. I can't keep having secret feelings for him anymore - I got so depressed a couple of months ago because I felt so afraid to be myself and admit my feelings to him. I just want to tell him how I feel without putting him in a situation where he feels uncomfortable.
2) Apparently boy #2 might have a crush on me as well (he apparently has had dreams about me and says my name in his sleep sometimes). He's a nice kid, but there are a couple of minor personality traits he has which piss me off just a little bit. But he's still great and if he did have feelings for me I would be very interested in spending more time with him. It's just that I don't know how to find out if he actually does feel this way for me, or has just had weird dreams about me.
I don't know what to do.
It's so hard to admit to everything because I go to an all boys school.
All constructive advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
@ Mr. and/or Ms. Orla: I am 16 years old and I know I am gay for sure.
@ Lonely Girl: Are gays a race of people now? Learn to not be so ignorant before you say something like that. You said you have a brother who's gay and you think he's of a different race to you? Goddammit.
@ Lonely Girl: Don't worry, your answer was actually quite helpful. It's just that sentence which really peed me off.
1) I've had a thing for this boy for ages now (probably 4 months), and I don't know if he's noticed yet. I don't know if he's gay, but his sexuality is fairly ambiguous. I can't keep having secret feelings for him anymore - I got so depressed a couple of months ago because I felt so afraid to be myself and admit my feelings to him. I just want to tell him how I feel without putting him in a situation where he feels uncomfortable.
2) Apparently boy #2 might have a crush on me as well (he apparently has had dreams about me and says my name in his sleep sometimes). He's a nice kid, but there are a couple of minor personality traits he has which piss me off just a little bit. But he's still great and if he did have feelings for me I would be very interested in spending more time with him. It's just that I don't know how to find out if he actually does feel this way for me, or has just had weird dreams about me.
I don't know what to do.
It's so hard to admit to everything because I go to an all boys school.
All constructive advice would be much appreciated.
Thanks!
@ Mr. and/or Ms. Orla: I am 16 years old and I know I am gay for sure.
@ Lonely Girl: Are gays a race of people now? Learn to not be so ignorant before you say something like that. You said you have a brother who's gay and you think he's of a different race to you? Goddammit.
@ Lonely Girl: Don't worry, your answer was actually quite helpful. It's just that sentence which really peed me off.