dads in jail mum dislikes me...>>>?

Jeremy

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so yea uhm..my dads in jail for another 10 months and my mums sufferig through depression n whenever she gets cut she has a go at me for no paticular reason....i no its wrong to abuse her back sinse shes my mum so i dont...i just dont no where i belong at the moment and bills flying everhwree and where gonna loose the house soon probaly...shes a real nice mum and all but soemtimes she just full on crys and i have to cheer her up when she doesnt take her anti depresence..sometiems i feel like the grown up...im to scared to call a counsillor but i really need the help... ive started phisically hurting myself which i keep regreting but yet i keep doing it...im just so lost at the moment can any1 help me and do you have advice i could have to get through this ... without mentioning counsilors....
 
Its time for you to let your mom take care of herself and her own woes. Sounds like you have had enough of all this depression. Get out of the house more and do some hobbies you enjoy. Don't let all this get you down. Be strong and start taking care of yourself.
 
I'm sorry pet, but you need to talk to a professional about this. There is no other way to deal with it for you.

They are there to HELP you, not frighten you.

I think you are frightened by the thought of a new way of dealing with the thing, because what you know now is familiar. Understand that there are better ways of coping with difficult situations that the way your mother is coping with what's happening to her now.
 
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