My friend is a depressed/bipolar struggling because he wants to be a rockstar someday. He is soooo obsessed with Kurt Cobain from Nirvana and tries to look like him, think like him, reads Kurt's journals, tries to find band members like Kurt...basically tries to compare and identify everything in his life with Kurt! I'm sorry but I don't find this healthy. I mean it's ok to respect someone but I think it's scary and weird. Can anyone shed any light on this issue for me? I don't understand. My friend is 16 and he is not on meds. He is homeschooled and isolated but does see a therapist once a week. Thanks.