Did I do the right thing leaving my 4 year sexless relationship?
A month ago I left my partner of 4 years. He was a "nice boy"with some positive points.He didn't smoke, drink, swear, and brought me brekkie in bed every morning for 4 years.
The problem was for 4 years I hinted for sex though he never came across, it was like he was to shy or embarrassed too. He was great company whenever we went out but at home he was a lonely person to live with. He never seemed to be able to just sit and talk, he always had to be doing something with his hands. He had a computer addition and would be on the computer 5 minutes after work, 5 minutes after waking up and most of the weekend if I didn't get him out. Only a telling off would get him off his computer but then he'd fall back into his old habit. I couldnt handle the loneliness of living with him no longer a month ago, he never seemed to notice how lonely I was as he sat at his computer. I fled to my mums and have now brought my own home. I haven't spoken to him since the day I fled. Maybe I'm paying him back for all those nights I felt neglected as he sat at his computer. I took with me 4 animals and my child so guess he'd be feeling lonely now. However NOW I feel so lonely and I cant help wondering if I did the right thing leaving my 4 year sexless relationship ?
PS - and no he's not gay just shy and doesn't open up
Tracy
A month ago I left my partner of 4 years. He was a "nice boy"with some positive points.He didn't smoke, drink, swear, and brought me brekkie in bed every morning for 4 years.
The problem was for 4 years I hinted for sex though he never came across, it was like he was to shy or embarrassed too. He was great company whenever we went out but at home he was a lonely person to live with. He never seemed to be able to just sit and talk, he always had to be doing something with his hands. He had a computer addition and would be on the computer 5 minutes after work, 5 minutes after waking up and most of the weekend if I didn't get him out. Only a telling off would get him off his computer but then he'd fall back into his old habit. I couldnt handle the loneliness of living with him no longer a month ago, he never seemed to notice how lonely I was as he sat at his computer. I fled to my mums and have now brought my own home. I haven't spoken to him since the day I fled. Maybe I'm paying him back for all those nights I felt neglected as he sat at his computer. I took with me 4 animals and my child so guess he'd be feeling lonely now. However NOW I feel so lonely and I cant help wondering if I did the right thing leaving my 4 year sexless relationship ?
PS - and no he's not gay just shy and doesn't open up
Tracy