I am 21 in college never had a girlfriend. I was really shy in highschool and kinda wanted a girlfriend but never went after one. Now though I don't want one and dont even talk to girls much at all. I just like doing whatever I want when I want to do it. So if your single and not going after women do people just assume stupid **** like your desperate, boring, or gay, etc??? I mean I know only ignorant people assume things when they don't Really know someone well, but there are quite a few ignorant people in this world.