with trying to figure out what could be the best and fastest way.. I don't know a single thing about visas or anything, and I really can't ask him about it yet, because I really don't wanna be giving him fake hope that I'll do it. I obviously want to be sure first. But I would definitely like to have an idea of what the whole procedure might be, before even losing too many nights of sleep over it. He is coming to Europe to visit me now in January, and by then I would really like to be able to make an informed decision. I know that it wouldn't be a problem at all for him to marry me, on the contrary (as much of a wild adventure as that would be, and especially for me lol).. but even if we chose to do that I still have no clue of what the whole process would entail, both logistics and time wise. Like would I have to try and get a tourist visa first, and then go from there or something?!
God I'm just so totally clueless concerning this kind of stuff.. it's just that I really love him, and also happen to be fully aware of the fact that you don't come across the blessing of having fallen in love with a real person, a decent human being, and an outstanding man that often in life.. The reasons being, well lets face it, that there really are very few of these specimens around! So something tells me that I really have to freaking do this, and not even bother to give it that much thought. I'm just a bit confused about the whole logistics, because I had never thought about immigrating to the US before, EVER! lol It's just one of those life turns I guess..
Anyway, if there is anyone who can give me some advice with this I will really appreciate it. Thank you
p.s. BTW, he's from Washington State if it matters in any way.
God I'm just so totally clueless concerning this kind of stuff.. it's just that I really love him, and also happen to be fully aware of the fact that you don't come across the blessing of having fallen in love with a real person, a decent human being, and an outstanding man that often in life.. The reasons being, well lets face it, that there really are very few of these specimens around! So something tells me that I really have to freaking do this, and not even bother to give it that much thought. I'm just a bit confused about the whole logistics, because I had never thought about immigrating to the US before, EVER! lol It's just one of those life turns I guess..
Anyway, if there is anyone who can give me some advice with this I will really appreciate it. Thank you
p.s. BTW, he's from Washington State if it matters in any way.