Everyone hates me...I started a false rumor?

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Ashlynn

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Okay so, before anyone judges me, I made a huge mistake by starting the rumor. I was really mad, so yeah, that's why I did it. But anyways, the guy that I liked, started liking this other girl. I didn't tell the guy that I liked him, so when I found out that he liked the other girl and they were about to start going out, I started a rumor saying that she was a few months pregnant (which was a stupid lie because she doesn't have a stomach at all, it's completely flat). I thought this was going to stop him from liking her, but he didn't believe the rumor, no one believed it. And now everyone hates me, and he won't accept my apology because they both confronted me using some cuss words. Her friends and almost everyone I see always give me the evil eye, and my friends hate me now. I really regret doing this, but I don't know what to do.

We have one class together, and this happened two weeks ago. She doesn't seem mad anymore, because when I try and walk into the class, she moves out of the way so I can get through. We were partnered together once, and she didn't talk much, she just told me the answers. But the guy that I like is still mad, and it seems everyone else is too. What do I do? I'm desperate.
 
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Nap

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"you set the house on fire, now you have to watch it burn. " Basically all you can do is let this run its course. Next time.. follow the rule of 3. Everything comes back to you times 3, whether good or bad... so try to do good.
 
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Irena

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Ah a girl made up a bunch of rumors about me 2 years go. Thankfully no one believed her and no one likes her anymore. A few months later she apologized and than asks me to do drugs with her. I just said no thanks and erased every contact with her. I really don't like people like you, but try apologizing in front of a bunch of people and say how much you regret it. And say you were jealous because you liked that guy. Good luck with that.
 
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lucy

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Your friends are bums. I mean, can't they just forget and move on? It's not like it's true, so they should deal with it and accept that you're sorry. Honey, in a few months it'll blow over. Something similar happened at my school, and it was like everyone just... Forgot.
Good luck! xD
 
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APhish

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where i live in school, there is a B1 day, where everyone speaks about stuff on the intercom. they share past secrets and personal experiences. you could use this to apologize. embarassing yourself would show you truly are sorry. if you dont have a day like this, you must have an intercom or something. make it your status on facebook or myspace or something if not. also, keep in mind that if they arent fporgiving they dont deserve to be your friend. hope i helped:)
 
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courtney

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If ur lifes really sucking at that school then why not transfer? Hello? Just tell ur parents about it if they dont already know or if they dont know n u dont want them to know (i dont see why not) then just tell em something like you have no friends n all of the kids at your school think you started a rumor or something like that.
 
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LaurenKing

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everyone makes mistakes,so dont worry,you have acknowledged that you made a mistake and thats good and very brave of you,

people will soon realise that your a good person and not to judge by one silly mistake,

hope i helped,
good luck babe x

:)
 
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courtney

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If ur lifes really sucking at that school then why not transfer? Hello? Just tell ur parents about it if they dont already know or if they dont know n u dont want them to know (i dont see why not) then just tell em something like you have no friends n all of the kids at your school think you started a rumor or something like that.
 
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Samantha

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You got what was coming to you. See if your teacher (or more than one teacher) will let you write an essay, in which you explain what you did, why it was wrong, and how sorry you are, and let you read it in front of the class. Don't include any names, but everyone will know anyway.>
 
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AshleyGirl

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if the girls not mad at you then just tell her your sorry and act like your friends and soon people will relize your friends and will forget about it
 
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AshleyGirl

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if the girls not mad at you then just tell her your sorry and act like your friends and soon people will relize your friends and will forget about it
 
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AshleyGirl

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if the girls not mad at you then just tell her your sorry and act like your friends and soon people will relize your friends and will forget about it
 
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Irena

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Ah a girl made up a bunch of rumors about me 2 years go. Thankfully no one believed her and no one likes her anymore. A few months later she apologized and than asks me to do drugs with her. I just said no thanks and erased every contact with her. I really don't like people like you, but try apologizing in front of a bunch of people and say how much you regret it. And say you were jealous because you liked that guy. Good luck with that.
 
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AshleyGirl

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if the girls not mad at you then just tell her your sorry and act like your friends and soon people will relize your friends and will forget about it
 
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Samantha

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You got what was coming to you. See if your teacher (or more than one teacher) will let you write an essay, in which you explain what you did, why it was wrong, and how sorry you are, and let you read it in front of the class. Don't include any names, but everyone will know anyway.>
 
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RaiMiz

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First off, HA HA. No offense, but that's totally what you get. Just because some dude you like likes some other girl, does NOT give you the right to start a rumor about her. Another thing, wouldn't it have been smart to actually LOOK at her stomach ? I don't blame anyone for being mad at you, I'd give you the evil eye, too ! So I guess the only thing you can do is petit die down and don't talk to anyone. Hope my answerish thing helped a little.
 
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