falling out of love? or just in relationship for too long?

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sexycutekitten

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I've been with my bf for a little over 10 years. I recently don't have that same feeling anymore. I don't know if its something I'm going through or I just don't love him anymore. How can you tell?! and yes, lately I've been flirting and thinking about other guys, but maybe thats cuz I need the attention? i know i still love him and can't live without him, but I just don't feel that feeling anymore that I used to have. whats wrong?
 
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snowybell

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I think all girls must get this feeling at some point in a long relationship. Maybe you need to do something together you once did that made you both happy, like visit somewhere or reinact something. Try as a couple to bring some excitement into your sex life, your life in general and most of all, talk! Your partner might have the same feelings and by talking you could either save what you have or you might both say, "this has been great but....lets move along!" Im sure if that was the case, with a ten yr long relationship you could be friends?? Good luck. xxx
 
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Katie

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it's possible that you're just taking each other for granted
you still probably love each other but you've been together so long that you just assume that the other person is going to be there so you stopped doing the little things.
go out dancing or go to the movies
take a day off of work and just spend it together
plan a date night at least once a week
smile more laugh more and make sure to talk every day
 
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