We just found out two days ago that he has a cancerous tumor in his stomach. They did surgery today to look at it and to do something with the small intestine that they tumor was wrapped around. They said the tumor is so big it's taking over what the doctor calls "God's region" (major organs). She knows I am here for her and her family, but I want to do more than just say I'm here. I know her pain because my grandma died from brain cancer last year and the whole process of not knowing etc was horrible. What can I do to help them? I've known her for years and she is one of my best friends.