i'm 17 and he is 19. we both study overseas away from home. we met by chance in a school trip and because of that trip, we fall for each other. We are now 5 months but my parents have no idea that i'm still wif him. after our 1st month, my parents find out through my best friend's mom. my parents came and unhappy about the news. they ask me to break up wif him and they explained that i'm not mature enough to have one and i'm too young. my mom told me that he is not a good guy, though she met him once only. She told me idk his family and his background, i can get better guy than him and there are lots of guys better than him that i hvn't meet. i listen too them as i thought its the best thing to do considering i never lied or rebel from them. i told him about that and we broke up. He seems quite sad and i just can't stand. at first i thought i don really love him, its only a new game for me as what my mom say. Everytime we meet each other at school, we feel very very sad and just hope that we can be tgther. At last, we decided to just be tgther without my parents knowing. at the first months, my mom is still sensitive about it, and ask whether he is still trying to be wif me or smthng.. I starts to tell lies to them, over my life, i never tell lies to my parents at all, this is my first lie i made and i feel quite bad. i rmb my dad called me one night after my friend's bday, he ask where am i, i told him after my friend's bday dinner, we all went to her house but i actually watch movie wif him after my friend's bday dinner. he is extremely mad that i can't really explain where her house is and he just yell at me ask me to buy airticket back home tomorrow and just continue my study in my home country. Lucky my mother stop my dad and take over the phone call.
my bf and i spend a lot of times tgther, we love each other so much and we r very very serious with our relationship. he knows almost everything bout me and i assume i do. all the positive and negative stuffs. He is not the perfect guy but i love him the way he is. the first time, he doesn't tell me all about his positive sides, he told me about his family, his naughtiness and also about his ex girls.
he always protect me. i talk to my mom why can't i be wif him, my mom just explained the same thing all over again,,,,, and my parents seems don like his nationality and hve a bad image about him. he is a sweet guy, he came to my home country for my bday party and i first cannot believe that he did came for my b'day even though we r not tgther that time.
i'm jealous that my friends are able to hve dinner or vacation wif their parents along with the bf. i really wish that my parents will accept him n our relationship. i always feel secure and can be myself when i'm wif my bf. can you guys help me? how can i talk to them about this and make them accept my relationship with him?
my bf and i spend a lot of times tgther, we love each other so much and we r very very serious with our relationship. he knows almost everything bout me and i assume i do. all the positive and negative stuffs. He is not the perfect guy but i love him the way he is. the first time, he doesn't tell me all about his positive sides, he told me about his family, his naughtiness and also about his ex girls.
he always protect me. i talk to my mom why can't i be wif him, my mom just explained the same thing all over again,,,,, and my parents seems don like his nationality and hve a bad image about him. he is a sweet guy, he came to my home country for my bday party and i first cannot believe that he did came for my b'day even though we r not tgther that time.
i'm jealous that my friends are able to hve dinner or vacation wif their parents along with the bf. i really wish that my parents will accept him n our relationship. i always feel secure and can be myself when i'm wif my bf. can you guys help me? how can i talk to them about this and make them accept my relationship with him?