I'm 17 and I have only had sex about 5 times. 4 out of the 5 times it was kind of a steady pace and sometimes slow...but I would like it to be quite fast and hard but it's kind of awkward for a teenage girl to request this. Am I a sl*t?? Should I just request it anyway? Do teenage boys like it fast?? Would my vagina rip?? This is a serious question 