normal help me please lol? I dont really care about my hair but now since im 16 i think i wanna go a little crazy with my looks and i wanna make my hair straight just to see what it looks like im black and i have short hair i wanna grow it out but i dont know how cause i usually cut it off but also when i straighten it i dont want to perm it or use chem's....My friend has hair sorta like mine its long but he blow drys it then straightens it normal but i need to grom mine ut apparently so how do i as a african american boy grow my hair out so i can get it to the point to straighten it?