If a man is already keen/interested, would making out on a first date reduce

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his interest? Let's say after that kiss he held hands and walked her home and they kissed a little in front of her apartment. And he sent an email that same night to let her know it was great to see her.

Would an already interested/attracted man decide against a 2nd date because a woman french kissed on the 1st date? Or would he more likely just expect that he can get sex easily going forward? These people are in their 30s.
Btw - I don't believe in sex until like 5th date or later.
Nobody is pushing me. I'm just trying to understand what a guy may think and I don't have hard and fast rules, just that I usually wait a little while.
 
French kissing on the first date is a good sign. He will be more interested.
 
I think 30 something should know by now.....No sex until after getting to know each other and then talking first about where things are headed. Why put a # on so many dates and then sex. Sex should be the last thing, if not then this isn't a long-term relationship in progress. No one should be expected to put out on the first date or 5th. You are with the wrong person if this is the pushing issue.
 
Of course not. I think he would be thrilled to go on another date, especially since he sent an email stating he enjoyed the first date.

He might be thinking about sex, but only time will tell...so she needs to be patient and give it some time to see where he goes with it.
 
he would probably be more likely to ask her out again. and he is going to expect her to honor the sacred 3 date rule, being as they are both adults.
 
No not at all, he would just think you're easy.


If they're in their 30's the rules are completely different. Don't worry about sending signals just express yourself.
 
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