im in love with this guy and his girlfriend is starting rumors...?

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Melinda

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there's this guy who's always been my best friend. he doesn't know I've been in love with him since the 7th grade, [[ 4 years now]] any way we hung out everyday last summer and we ended up making out a few times and playing truth and dare and stuff but now his new girlfriend [[ he was single this summer now hes not]] wont let him talk to me. she thinks im spreading rumors when all i did was tell my best friend about this summer. His mothers my moms best friend so its going to be awkward when christmas comes around but i just want him to talk to me, ik we had something for him to kiss m so much. i just don't know what to do.

help mee???/
 
his new girl has a right to be upset, you are in love with her boyfriend. She's certainly not gonna be happy about that. He chose to spend the summer with you, now he's moved on to her. You need to move on, he's taken. be polite over christmas, but don't get all personal with him, he has a girlfriend, be respectful of that.
Enjoy your memories, but keep them to yourself, if this girl knows you were talking about her man to your best friend then obviously someone let it slip out, didn't they??
 
Sorry but why are you talking about the summer still? Are you trying to ruin a perfectly good friendship? Clearly nothing developed past kissing this summer and he has clearly moved on because he has a girlfriend! Bringing up the past is making things awkward and clearly you don't understand that. I suggest you try to forget about this summer and just let it go. If he truly likes/liked you, then he would be dating you and not this girl. He also might have just been enjoying his summer and making out with you and had no intention of it going on past the summer. Try to move on because you're really the one who's embarrassing yourself and you are the only one making this awkward - not him or the girlfriend.
 
She is jealous and knows you love him - even if he does not - girls have an internal radar that picks up on the slightest feelings from other girls when it comes to their men...

You have to befriend her and apologize and pretend to not be into him (talk about some other guy) - that way you will eventually win him over.. otherwise, he will fade away due to her influence.

And dont sleep with him... she will, you wont, you will still be seen as the one he did not get... he will crave you as he goes through other girls like water.
 
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