My husbands ex-wife is trying to say I am not allowed to pick up the kids if my husband as work, because its not my parenting time. It's his. She has been very jealous of our relationship of 5 years. She has been more awful since we got married. I am a responsible person, and her kids absolutely love me. I think that's what makes her most angry. I am not trying to take her place, just helping my husband out and wanting to spend time with them as well. I love them. They are my step-kids.