It's his birthday, all three of us are friends. I was their waitress for a long time. He always talks about my boobs. And wrote on my FB wall, happy birthday to my secret lover!!! Well today is his birthday and I put happy birthday to the love of my life. He is 55 and I'm 21. Is it wrong to joke with him like this? His wife has never said anything to either of us. She just laughes or puts you two are so funny.