Is my best friend gay? 10 points, interesting story, Sigmund Freud(electra complex)?

[DanielPrinceton]

So, my best friend "John", whom ive known for over 10 years has recently broken up with his girlfriend because he lost the passion for sex with her. I'm gonna be honest here, i love the kid, were so down to earth and real with each other and understand what we both do, say the same things and are basically brothers, he says love you to me a lot too, even though we act like hard asses around other friend haha. Now about a year ago we were smoking pot with his brother and asked each other the weirdest thing thats happened to us, so he started telling us about a dream he had that involved sexual encounter with his father and how he liked it?.. and at that let me add that hes very clingy and really attention hungry from me, even though were both young adults, and hes always the one saying love ya and going in for hugs, but hes also a ladies man and has it easy with women. so recently ive been interested in dream interpretation and reading up on it, and remembered when i was younger i was sexually attracted to my mom and was disgusted by this and ashamed, so 3 years later which is present day i googled my old fascination that i dont have anymore and was wondering if it was normal or what that meant, and i learned about Sigmund Freud and the Oedipus complex which basically means almost all teenage boys normally sexually fantasize about their mothers, which made me feel better haha, and also read upon the electra complex, which tells about women and being sexually attracted to their fathers, so the concept is, being sexually attracted to your paternal or maternal parent and having dreams and or fantasy's about it(remember my friend having a homosexual dream with his father and enjoying it?) so this leads all this evidence leads me to believe he is in fact gay because of the fact that he had a homosexual dream which he liked with his father whereas im straight(although i dont agree on labels) and i had fantasy's about having sex with my mother, which i have no trouble with because i would accept him obviously. So my question is what is your thoughts on these concepts, and do you think my best friend is gay?