Ladies in your early to mid 20s-Would you go out with a guy with a purity

[Trojan8408]

ring/abstinent? I am just curious because I know it depends on the person, but I find it interesting since whenver it is swapped around where the girl is abstinent, a lot of guys want to go out with her just to be the first to get there- wrong or right. I was wondering mainly though if you find it a turnoff or anything like that? I have had mine since I was 15 (I am 22 now) whenever I bought it for myself and made the pledge. I am not a big time "JC freak" but I do believe in waiting due to stds, pregnancy, and my religious beliefs that sex should only be with someone you love and that true love does truly wait. I would rather only be with someone I deeply love than some drunken night in a dorm room or in the back of a car.

 

[mystery]

totally! that means that the guy is pure, honest, and has respect for himself! and its not a turn off, and what ever girl finds it to be a turn off then they are sluts.

 

[Aidriana]

Yes, it would make me feel more comfortable around you. My boyfriend had forced me into sex almost everyday for two years before I broke up with him. If I knew that you weren't going to try anything I would a lot more comfortable around you. I think it is really sweet. I wish I would end up with someone like you =(