My bf makes me feel bad whenever I need to rant ?

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eee

Member
We are both 17. Whenever I just need to rant, I'll text my bf and say "I need to rant". But it seems like whenever I do, or whenever I need to talk to him about my troubles or get support from him, he turns the conversation around on me and makes it my fault. He makes me feel worse than before. What should I do? I don't feel like he cares
 
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Adrian

Member
STOP WHINING !

IF YOUR GOING TO RANT, RANT !

And dump that loser.

The fact that you girls put up with such ignorant men actually offends me.
 
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matthew

Member
how would you feel if you are sitting there enjoying your day and your best friend calls you up and just starts yelling at you about stuff from her life that you are not involved in? it feels like you are attacking him and so he will instinctively fight back. if he didn't care about you he wouldn't be your bf. he wouldn't answer your texts or calls. he's there because he care's. try not unloading it all on him. keep your cool don't yell or bicth to him about stuff. you can always talk but when you just push it all out at once he feels bombarded. next time instead of saying how much you hate something try asking him how would you feel if this happened to you? say how stressful it is when someone does that and you just need to hang out and relax. guys are all about the relaxing not so much about the yelling :p just keep it laid-back~
 
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Babyblue_1315

New member
Boyfriends aren't for ranting to until they become husbands lol.
Text your friends for that.
Boyfriends are like a friend that you have sex with, but you don't want to turn him off of sex because you treat him too much like a regular friend.
 
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