My husband doesn't understand my sex-drives. He'd rather play with Lincoln logs.?

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Speedracer1

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What kind of question is that? Ever heard of marital faithfulness?? You married you HUSBAND not his BROTHER. Stay with your HUSBAND. Talk to him. Work things out. Don't make things worse by sleeping with his brother. And if his brother wants to sleep with his brother's wife he's not a very good family member. He should know better and you should too. Marriage is not just some paper that is signed and then you can do whatever you want. You are bonded to your spouse for life. That doesn't mean that you are free to cheat on your husband with his brother. Stupid question you shouldn't have even asked. And all the people who are saying you should sleep with his brother are idiots because they obviously don't understand how deep of a subject marriage is either.
 
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blessedangel7908

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absolutley not. you should try to talk to him and tell him ur needs. if he still doesnt respond to them than i think its time you leave him to his logs and find another life.
 
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gamerunner2001

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There's an old saying, Don't sh*t where ya eat", think the brother might very well be a little close to the "table". That said you should make an effort to communicate your needs which means being a bit blunt about things. "Hey, wake up and put the logs down, we need to talk, I ain't getting what I need".
Relationships have this funny way of being extremely complicated and maybe there is more to this then meets the eye in your posting?
 
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Nidonemo

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I'd ask him straight out:

"Honey, I'm horny...right now. Are you in the mood or can I go bang your brother?"

The initial shock might make him think, but if he's not in the mood, he's not in the mood, forced sex tends to really suck.

Also, this only works when you would be okay with the same situation when the roles are reversed. If you have a sister and you weren't in the mood for sex, would it be okay for your husband to have sex with your sister? It isn't fair if one person has all the power.
 
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RyuK1

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Either this is made up or you just need to talk to your husband. Are you ready to destroy your marriage? I'm more than positive that if you cheat on your husband then you don't want to be married to him. Talk to him first, tell him that you have your sexual needs. And if that's the case that your going to cheat then get a divorce first. Think about it. Would you want him to sleep with your sister or best friend that wanted him? Chances are no. If you going to cheat, get a divorce or start getting one. Its not worth the betrayal and the distrust between one another.
 
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