sunshine028
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...same thing over and over? My guy and I have been arguing ALOT lately over the same thing. I've been really stressed about it and I want things to change. My fiancé hasn't been keeping his word about working on something thats been bothering me. He says it will get done, but keeps breaking his promise. I know he wants things to improve just as much as I do, but it's not being takin care of. I'm tired of being the one to always bust my butt.
I used to express my emotions in a good way, but lately I've been flying off the handle. The one thing I ask of him he doesn't do. So yesterday I got really upset! For the hundredth time he promised the situation would be taken care of, but it didn't happen! I was so furious that I told him I wanted to break off our engagement & I broke pictures of us in the house. I know that wasn't mature, but i reached my boiling point. I wanted him to step up. He kept apologizing and cried while begging me to stay because he loves me. I wasn't serious about leaving him. I love him so much! He is the most amazing boyfriend. We're just going through a difficult time.
So of course today I feel like a total ass and I'm humiliated from my behavior. We've been arguing about this same problem for months and I was starting to lose my patience. I regret acting out on my anger, especially because this week it's been non stop. I didn't mean all the hurtful things I said. My fiancé doubts I still love him now. I just want to get through this difficult time. The last thing I wanna do Is fight. I love him. How can I show him I still care? Im really sad.
I used to express my emotions in a good way, but lately I've been flying off the handle. The one thing I ask of him he doesn't do. So yesterday I got really upset! For the hundredth time he promised the situation would be taken care of, but it didn't happen! I was so furious that I told him I wanted to break off our engagement & I broke pictures of us in the house. I know that wasn't mature, but i reached my boiling point. I wanted him to step up. He kept apologizing and cried while begging me to stay because he loves me. I wasn't serious about leaving him. I love him so much! He is the most amazing boyfriend. We're just going through a difficult time.
So of course today I feel like a total ass and I'm humiliated from my behavior. We've been arguing about this same problem for months and I was starting to lose my patience. I regret acting out on my anger, especially because this week it's been non stop. I didn't mean all the hurtful things I said. My fiancé doubts I still love him now. I just want to get through this difficult time. The last thing I wanna do Is fight. I love him. How can I show him I still care? Im really sad.