Why does this bother so many males? Does other women say nasty stuff to you? I know for a fact that the average penis is 5 inches. I also know that large ones sometimes hurt too much to have fun. If a girl likes a larger one than you--maybe she has a large vagina. Don't ever worry your penis size. Get to know how to make your lady laugh, treat her sweet and learn to hold off your orgasm. Women are multifaceted and want a man that has conversation also. When a girl feels closeness through her man making her feel she and her feelings are important---that equals--hot! You sound like a well endowed guy!