PoppyPercy
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sex. Best answer!? So there are a few things...
I'm a freshman and they guy that i'm getting with is a junior. The highschool is obviously new for every freshman but i was coming from a different district of schools but still people knew i was going to be coming to the other highschool. So anyway everyone knew i was coming (a little late, like a month after school started) anyway he told another freshman he knew to give me his number to text him...so i did and things went from there. Anyway the first night i was hanging out with him i gave him a bj...(but i was a little tipsy) anyway now weve had sex. I got in trouble for staying out too late one night so my mom took my phone away and i didnt delete my texts...she read the ones i have with this guy and she found out that we had sex, while she was home, in the dining room, twice. I am so embarassed! Anyway she talked to me about it and i told her i didnt want to talk about it and shes pretty cool with it but shes getting me birth control. She said she won't tell my dad because he would flip. Anyway today is (lets call him ryan) ryans birthday and he just turned 17 and since im 14 we can't legally have sex anymore and we talked about it how we would still hookup and stuff...and he said he loved me bla bla bla. But then...i hear from all my friends all the time how hes really touchy with this one girl and he is taking her to junior prom. And i mean i kinda want to break things off with him...i tried to today when i met him during school...but i just couldn't. Idk and then by the end of it we were making out again. But like he's so hot...why not stay with him? Ive talked to my friends about it and some of them say to end it and some of them say to keep hooking up with him since hes the hottest jr and people think im hot for a freshman i guess..but idk But at the same time i know hes kinda using me in a way. I've never really been single before..ive always been getting with one guy...how do i handle this whole thing? please help.
And just so you know...i didn't lose my virginity to him..my mom was like "you shouldnt have done it for the first time with someone like ryan." But what was i supposed to say? "ohh no mom dont worry i lost it when i was 13 with my old boyfriend (who she actually did like)..but that would just sound worse than things already are so i left it.
But idk if i should end things or not!?!?!? its so hard! thanks
I'm a freshman and they guy that i'm getting with is a junior. The highschool is obviously new for every freshman but i was coming from a different district of schools but still people knew i was going to be coming to the other highschool. So anyway everyone knew i was coming (a little late, like a month after school started) anyway he told another freshman he knew to give me his number to text him...so i did and things went from there. Anyway the first night i was hanging out with him i gave him a bj...(but i was a little tipsy) anyway now weve had sex. I got in trouble for staying out too late one night so my mom took my phone away and i didnt delete my texts...she read the ones i have with this guy and she found out that we had sex, while she was home, in the dining room, twice. I am so embarassed! Anyway she talked to me about it and i told her i didnt want to talk about it and shes pretty cool with it but shes getting me birth control. She said she won't tell my dad because he would flip. Anyway today is (lets call him ryan) ryans birthday and he just turned 17 and since im 14 we can't legally have sex anymore and we talked about it how we would still hookup and stuff...and he said he loved me bla bla bla. But then...i hear from all my friends all the time how hes really touchy with this one girl and he is taking her to junior prom. And i mean i kinda want to break things off with him...i tried to today when i met him during school...but i just couldn't. Idk and then by the end of it we were making out again. But like he's so hot...why not stay with him? Ive talked to my friends about it and some of them say to end it and some of them say to keep hooking up with him since hes the hottest jr and people think im hot for a freshman i guess..but idk But at the same time i know hes kinda using me in a way. I've never really been single before..ive always been getting with one guy...how do i handle this whole thing? please help.
And just so you know...i didn't lose my virginity to him..my mom was like "you shouldnt have done it for the first time with someone like ryan." But what was i supposed to say? "ohh no mom dont worry i lost it when i was 13 with my old boyfriend (who she actually did like)..but that would just sound worse than things already are so i left it.
But idk if i should end things or not!?!?!? its so hard! thanks