Should I transfer high schools next year?

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I know this doesn't relate to this section, but I love C&A!
I'm thinking about transfering high schools next year. I'm in 2 out of 3 honors classes that my school offers for freshman this year, but in the school that I want to transfer in, doesn't, and I'm afraid that it'll effect my college application when time comes. The reason I want to transfer is because I decided to go to a different high school than my friends due to me wanting to follow in my brothers footsteps. He graduated in the school I'm attending at now, which I hate. I'm basically the loner girl that doesn't have any friends right now, and I even eat lunch in the bathroom or library because I don't know anyone. It's been a week since school started, and ughh. It's just so hard making friends. Academically, I will get a 4.00 at this school, and at the school that I want to transfer at. The school I want to transfer at does not offer any AP or Honors classes, but it has all of my friends that I miss and love. I would basically be popular if I transfered, but that's not what I want. What I want is my friends, my old life back, and to be happy again.
So what do you think?
1.) Transfer next year, and not be able to take any honors or AP classes, but still get 4.00's, comunity service, clubs, and possibly a sport. Plus being HAPPY with many friends and a social life.

or...

2.) Don't transfer, but be in honors and AP classes, clubs, a sport, and community service. BUT be unhappy and miserable, with not so many friends.

Oh, and it takes 30 min. to get to the schoo I'm going to now. For the school that I want to transfer at, it takes 5 min. Voice your opinion. I'm depressed...ugh.
 
I would say don't transfer...it's not hard making friends when you are in a sport! Reach out to someone and talk to them, ask people in your class if you can sit with them at lunch. Chances are, they're fine with having more people at the table. No worries, it's always rough at first, it'll get better. Keep your head held high and try your best!
 
I'd stay in school - if you changed schools after an entire year, you'll be finding it tough to fit in with your new schoolmates, and perhaps you'll find that your friends have moved on, have new friends, etc. It's best to stay put and try your best to make new friends (: I went to a musical summer school this summer, and I was by myself on the first day 'cause my other friends were in a different group. So what did I do? I chatted to whoever was sitting next to me! I made lots of new friends in just a day, and it's really easy. You might think it's awkward to suddenly chat to someone, but what's more awkward? Being friendly and chatting to others, or running off to eat your lunch on the toilet? Do your best to be confident (:
 
Ok. So Your education is what your life depends on. After you graduate school there isn't much time for friends so one one hand you need all the friends ships now cuz you won't have many left after graduation. But then what is the point of ruining your career for friends you will talk to once a month maybe if you have a really good one once a week. So Honey you are in one Tiff spot. Good Luck. And follow your gut
 
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