What are some really good clues that someone may be gay or bi?

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I have a new friend. He makes gay jokes as in, "I'm gay, YESSSSS. I am. I wanna stick that in another guy's butthole." He makes similar jokes to these. He cares A LOT about him hair, he literally massages it the whole class time. He cares about his nails too and stares at it for most of the class time as well. He told me he thinks a certain girl is really hot. When I asked him to talk to her, he said he's acknowledging her beauty, but not interested in her that way. He always brings her up. Why would he if he's not sexually interested? LOL. He isn't homophobic though. He has never been in a relationship before. He's 20 years old.

Maybe I'm missing something, but what are some good clues (w/o asking) that he may be gay or bi? I'm bi myself and wanna come out to him, but I'm not interested in him like that, just wanna be friends. How do I come out to him myself? I feel weird for not telling him I'm bi since we known each other for 2 months now. FYI, ppl are usually never surprised to find out I'm bi. I'm not overly flamboyant, but I do give off some vibes. Please help!
 
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