things first? I was sitting next to my boyfriend of two weeks as he was texting someone and I curiously peeked over and he shut his phone immediately. So I asked if I could see it and he refused. I even offered him my phone in exchange. Then he said to give him 15 seconds with his phone, so I wouldn't let him open it. It turned into a physical playful fight. After 30 minutes I stopped and realized that if he's fighting this hard over something as simple as a cell phone, he must be really hiding something. So I told him to leave, and he did without any complaints. Was I wrong to make him leave? I know a cellphone is a personal thing, but I have a real problem with secrets. I have none (literally NONE) and I feel like he has a million. I'm not typically so nosy, but his reaction really worries me.