What's the best thing a woman can do when her husband complains about his job when she makes little money and has to depend on his insurance? He enjoys his job and what he does but he don't like the pressure and the bull that he is having to put up with.They expect him to work for them while they go play golf, go to their kids activities and go on vacations. He cusses and says the other men are all sorry and won't work. So I am feeling his anxiety along with mine. I have started a small business and don't want him to quit his job. So do I keep getting fired up with him, ignore him or encourage him. I rub his back sometimes for him and support him but he won't listen to my advice like trying to get a better job. Instead he keeps saying he wants to quit and get on disability because he is in pain.