What is the best thing a wife can do when her husband complains about his job.?

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What's the best thing a woman can do when her husband complains about his job when she makes little money and has to depend on his insurance? He enjoys his job and what he does but he don't like the pressure and the bull that he is having to put up with.They expect him to work for them while they go play golf, go to their kids activities and go on vacations. He cusses and says the other men are all sorry and won't work. So I am feeling his anxiety along with mine. I have started a small business and don't want him to quit his job. So do I keep getting fired up with him, ignore him or encourage him. I rub his back sometimes for him and support him but he won't listen to my advice like trying to get a better job. Instead he keeps saying he wants to quit and get on disability because he is in pain.
 
He will find BS at absolutely any job. If the job offers benefits, be happy and grateful for it. My husband works at a job that he puts up with little pay and no benefits. With the unemployment rate so high, he's thankful to have a job.
 
Tell him that now is not the time to be quitting his job. tell him that when he gets older, he will be grateful that he has made a career and has some money set aside for his future. Tell him that one illness can bankrupt a family, and that his insurance is important. Tell him that his ONLY choice is to look for another job, while he is still employed, because it is easier to find a job when you are employed than to if you are not employed.

Tell him not to feel bad. Most upper level employees get the luxury of doing those things. He needs to work his way up.

Schedule a regular once a week chiropractic adjustment. You would be surprised how good he will feel, and how his attitude will change. My son did not believe me, until he had his first one. Now he gets one every week, and he is in a very stressful job also. By the way, it will probably reduce his pain as well.
 
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