Why do people feel that they have to spread lies and rumors.?

[psycho247_2000]

I'm a 28 year old male. I've been out of high school for almost 10 years now. I've have found that in the past couple of years that lies and rumors are spread around more now then they were when I was in high school. I like this girl, we are in the beginnings of a new relationship. She is a stripper, and one of the clubs she works at there are rumors going around that she lies and that she has a f**k buddy. I don't even believe them. From what I have learned from her over the last year of getting to know her. Is that she is honest, and she says that she doesn't have on. Even has even told me that the rumor of her sleeping with her old manager wasn't true before one of my friends told me to lose her. After one of his friends told him, and his source is girls from the club.

I guess the irony of it is she said that if she was sleeping with anyone from my area that it would be me, and that she isn't. I really didn't need the reminder. I love her, she says she loves me, and I feel that there is no way that she can really be that good of a liar. If she is then I guess I deserve to have my heart broken then, because that is one of the reasons I fell for her.
Well it pissed her off enough to think that I was believing what was being said. Even told me to believe what I want.

 

[wemblania]

Darls a lot of those strippers are lesbians, because they see the worst behaviour in men and get put right off them.

 

[madmarv]

Hello my friend.In this case you should follow your heart not your ears.Any relationship is built on trust and if trust is not there then what you're trying to build will not stand.Follow your heart.