Why does it make me feel better to tune out people who gossip and pay way...

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chestnutt85

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...too much attention to me? I literally pretend they are not in the room, or that they are not there when I pass them in the halls...

Why does it make me feel better to do this than to confront them or whatever else?

What may be a better tactic, if any?
 
You know the old saying,"If you have nothing nice to say,don't say anything".Gossip is for people who have nothing good to say about anybody.By you not responding to them shows you're a better person,secure in your life so you don't have to validate yourself by finding fault in others,including the gossipers.You're right in not taking part because people who have to judge others,need to find themselves.You feel better because you know it's not right,and there's nothing wrong with that.You're a good person.Don't change because you think others want you too.God Bless and good luck.
 
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